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{Monday, October 29, 2007}   missing a best friend

You took my hand
You showed me how
You promised me you’d be around
That’s right
I took your words
And I believed
In everything
You said to me
That’s right

If someone said three years from now
You’d be long gone
I’d stand up and punch them out
Cause they’re all wrong
I know better
cause you said forever
and ever
who knew

Remember when we were such fools
And so convinced and just too cool
I wish I could touch you again
I wish I could still call you a friend
I’d give anything

When someone said count your blessings now
For they’re long gone
I guess I just didn’t know how
I was all wrong
They knew better
Still you said forever
And ever
Who knew

I’ll keep you locked in my head
Until we meet again
Until we meet again
And I won’t forget you my friend

She’s your best buddy for years and expects nothing from you but to be her friend only. But you fell for her.. crazily. It was just nothing for her, just pure friendship, unlike what you’ve been anticipating.. that your relationship will blossom into something special.

She rejected you a gazillion times but you’re just madly in love with her that you can’t accept the fact that she has chosen to love another guy. She rejected you the very first attempt of admitting your love for her, without giving you any chance. To think that you have finally mustered your courage to tell her how important she is to you, which you have been keeping for years.

You have been friends for years, and when a new guy came, in an instant she fell for him.

Was it the girl’s fault that she can’t love her best friend? Should the girl accept that they can no longer be best friends again because her ‘best buddy’ decided to just stay out of her life yet silently loving her still?

Love is friendship, friendship is love. If love fails, friendship should remain. For friendship is the foundation of love.



something special between two women? hmmmmm… na-curious ako

Rhapsody: guy & girl bestfriends po yan hahahaha!



Rhapsody says:

ung isa po kasing character wlang nasabing gender.. kaya mejo confusing.. it’s like someone is just narrating a story and failed to mention the other’s gender.



I have been in the same situation before where I have this so-called “hidden feelings” towards my best buddy. I even thought he was “into me” and I think I was foolish enough to believe so but when I finally got the courage to confessed, he bluntly rejected me and it did hurt a lot. I even felt betrayed and there were a lot of questions on my mind left unanswered as to why, why not me…you know stupid questions running through my head…stuff like that. Being his friend for a couple of years, I was happy for him but I am only human and I do get hurt. Of course, there’s more to the story and I might write about it some day…maybe soon. Nevertheless, our friendship ended.

Rhapsody: Un ba talaga ang best solution.. to end the friendship? Can love really ruin friendship? If by chance magkita kayo somewhere, would you still talk to him and try to rekindle the friendship, if u feel that he still wants you back as his best buddy?



A says:

Because of our jobs, residency or other factors like entertainment, we can’t avoid but board an airplane once in a while and head somewhere.

some plane thoughts next time you fly. (from msnbc)

7. What about the flight attendant who discovered that her husband, a pilot, was cheating with countless co-workers? The husband mysteriously disappeared, but the investigation was not highly publicized, perhaps because of this unsavory coincidence: The pilot’s body was never found, but the flight attendant was famous for bringing homemade sandwiches to work, then generously handing them out to passengers and crew when there was no scheduled meal service. Talk about getting rid of the evidence!

9. Quite a few years back, before my time, a man shot his gun into the air signaling the end of duck season. The shot pierced a commercial airplane flying overhead, and some pellets hit a passenger in the bottom. The investigation revealed that the victim was, unbelievably, the brother of the man who fired the gun. This story is hard to believe, I grant you.

HAPPY HALLOWEEN

A

Rhapsody: #9 caught my attention, it’s really unbelievable. there’s a movie which is somewhat like that. I can’t recollect but I think it’s Tom Cruise’s Magnolia?



Paurong says:

if the feeling of love comes, what are we to do, especially when the other individual involved is his bestfriend. awts. that hurts when something else than friendship is anticipated. no more cryings.

Rhapsody: yeah.. i feel for those people who got rejected especially if it took them years trying to keep it to himself, but then mare-reject lang pala. It’s really not fair. But who are we to demand someone to love us back dibah..



Bharath says:

Liked the poem & your possible thoughts expressed.. Very thought provoking.. Thanks

Rhapsody: Hi Bharath! thanks so much.. the poem your’e saying that’s actually Pink’s song.. hope to see you here again! ;)



meds says:

me, am sincere and count as truly friend… i go out of my way to save the good friendship!!! ” WHO CARES”…its hard and llots of ups and down to build up a beautiful friendship! but, but, if its deserving to called as
super super special!! i ruin of that freindship!

RHAP!, tama ba ako, tanggap mo email ko.?

ingat!

Rhapsody: wow i think ur a good friend…. bout this entry… nagkausap na kami before Christmas at nalaman ko na wala naman problema at okei na ang communication namin ng bestfriend kong iyan… :D



katherine says:

so, this is just my 2 cents but I think a lot of the time girls end up falling in love with their guy best friends too. Most of the time I’ve seen girls fall head over heels in love with a guy
that they’re great friends with and they guy is either being rational or an idiot depending
on your perspective, but he’s afraid of ruining their friendships so I’d say that the best answer really is to just take the risk and see what the girl says depending on how close you guys are she’ll be way more likely to work hard to ensure that you can stay friends. if you’re close friends it could end up being an amazing relationship so it’s definitely worth taking the risk. Stay friends, it’s not anyone’s fault that friendships are complicated. Just wait it out, work towards being friends and you might be surprised at how things turn out someday.

Rhapsody: i agree coz most girls easily fall in love.. in my case, i dont fall inlove with a friend. though it happen once, we have that mutual feeling and we are still together til now. :D



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